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Drink Water & Mind Your Business

A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS & Healing Self-Esteem

Clinicians of Color: Virtual Book Tour
Oct
23

Clinicians of Color: Virtual Book Tour

Clinicians of Color Virtual Book Tour!

Let’s get real for a second: Society wasn’t built with Black women—or women of color—in mind. From day one, we’re taught that our worth is tied to how much we can give to others: partner, mother, friend, employee, and sometimes even savior.

But here’s the truth: This idea of constantly pouring out is draining!

Supremacy culture feeds us a false narrative that Black women’s value only exists in how much we serve, save, or support others. So how are we supposed to thrive when we’re constantly playing a role that wasn’t made for us? How do we flip the script and finally show up as our best, most authentic selves?

The answer? Self-esteem.

In Drink Water and Mind Your Business, Dr. Donna Oriowo breaks down how to build real self-esteem— by helping us understand what it is, how it was distorted by oppressive systems, and how you can reclaim it. With years of experience as a licensed sex and relationship therapist, Dr. Donna offers tangible, real-world strategies to help you set boundaries, prioritize your needs, and celebrate your immense worth.

This book is the roadmap for everyone who’s ready to stop surviving, and start thriving. You’ll learn how to:
 Break free from false narratives
 Reclaim the power that’s been stolen from you
 Cultivate joy, pleasure, and confidence in your body
 Set real, loving boundaries for your mental and emotional health

 

If you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of the world, this book is for you.

 

Join us for a virtual discussion with the author Thursday, October 23rd at 7pm ET

Grab your copy of Drink Water and Mind Your Business today: DrinkWaterBook.com 

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Grab Your Book, Your Water, and Your Tribe: It’s Read Along Time!
Nov
4
to Dec 2

Grab Your Book, Your Water, and Your Tribe: It’s Read Along Time!

You’ve got the book , maybe you’ve even read it, but sometimes we all need a little extra support. That’s where I come in! I wrote this book with you in mind, and now I want to walk through it with you.

Starting Tuesday, November 4th, join me for 5 weeks of FREE Read Along sessions from 7–8 PM, every week until Tuesday, December 2nd.

What to expect:

  • Meet once a week for 5 weeks

  • Cover 2 chapters per session

  • Bring your questions and I’ll bring my answers

Grab your book, invite a friend, and join me for this Read Along!

Register Here!

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Busboys & Poets: Spill the Tea
Sep
26

Busboys & Poets: Spill the Tea

Spill the Tea: Reclaiming My Voice

Sis, it’s time to get real. Join me for Spill the Tea, an interactive series created for us, by us—where we talk openly about sexual health, relationships, and everything in between. No sugarcoating, no shame, just truth, joy, and healing.

This session, I’m bringing the energy of my book Drink Water & Mind Your Business to life. Together, we’ll unpack the BS, reclaim our voices, and step fully into our power. Expect honest conversations, laughter, and a whole lot of liberation.

And because I know community care matters: we’ve got swag bags, raffles, a $25 gift card incentive, and food waiting for you. All you need to bring is yourself and a willingness to grow.

 September 26th, 2025
 Busboys and Poets – 2004 Martin Luther King Jr. Ave SE, Washington, DC
 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM

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 Book Talk & Signing
Sep
14

Book Talk & Signing

Hey y’all,

I’m so excited to invite you to join me at Urban Reads Bookstore in Baltimore for a special Book Talk & Signing of my book, Drink Water & Mind Your Business!

📅 Date: Sunday, September 14, 2025
🕦 Time: 11:30 AM – 1:00 PM
📍 Location: Urban Reads Bookstore, 3008 Greenmount Ave, Baltimore, MD 21218

We’re going to have some real conversation about self-esteem, healing, and unlearning all the BS we’ve been taught about ourselves. Of course, I’ll also be signing copies of my book so you can take a little piece of encouragement home with you.

Special Note: For every book you buy, one will be donated to an incarcerated individual. So your purchase doesn’t just empower you—it helps spread knowledge, healing, and self-love to someone else who needs it.

I can’t wait to see your face, hear your thoughts, and share this space with you. Bring your questions, your curiosity, and your openness—we’re going to have a good time.

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Black Books Matter
Aug
2
to Aug 9

Black Books Matter

Black Books Matter Fest 2025

Hey hey DMV fam!

I’m thrilled to be joining MahoganyBooks for their 2nd Annual Black Books Matter Fest! This is one of my favorite events of the year—a full day of Black authors, Black stories, and Black joy. ✊🏾📖

I’ll be there signing copies of
Drink Water & Mind Your Business
and connecting with readers all day long.

Here’s a peek at what’s happening:
Author signings (including yours truly!)
Black Books Matter Book Swap with Morgan Menzies
Kids storytime & craft activities
Local vendors & creators
Community, culture, and connection

Come vibe with us, bring a friend, and don’t forget to RSVP to stay in the loop on all the details!

RSVP Here
Let’s celebrate Black voices, Black books, and YOU.
See you there, boo! 💜

Date:
Saturday, August 2, 2025
Time: 11:00 AM – 4:00 PM ET
Location:
MahoganyBooks – National Harbor
121 American Way, Oxon Hill, MD 20745

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Book Club Meetup at The Boonie Breakdown
Jul
29

Book Club Meetup at The Boonie Breakdown

Book Club Meetup at The Boonie Breakdown

Hey y’all!

I’m closing out The Boonie Breakdown Book Club for July with a live meetup, and I want you to join me! We’ll be diving into all the juicy reflections from my book,
Drink Water & Mind Your Business: A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Your Self-Esteem.

We’ll talk about what it really means to:
Unlearn the BS
Reclaim your worth
Heal out loud

This is a Patreon-exclusive event, but it’s FREE with the right membership level. So if you’ve been reading along—or even if you’ve just been meaning to—pull up, log on, and let’s connect in community.

Don’t miss this! Sign up now at
patreon.com/TheBoonieBreakdown
Date: Tuesday, July 29, 2025
Time: 8:00 PM – 9:00 PM ET
Where: Live on Patreon
Hosted by: The Boonie Breakdown
🔗 patreon.com/TheBoonieBreakdown

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 Conservation with Ashley Cobb
Jul
23

Conservation with Ashley Cobb

I’m beyond excited to invite you to a powerful in-person event in Atlanta, GA on Tuesday, July 23, 2025 at 6:00 PM at one of my favorite Black-owned bookstores—44th & 3rd Bookseller!

I’ll be in conversation with the brilliant and hilarious Ashley Cobb, and we’re diving deep into my newest book, Drink Water & Mind Your Business: A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Your Self-Esteem.

If you’ve ever struggled with feeling “not enough,” wrestled with self-worth, or been burdened by the expectations placed on Black women—you are NOT alone, and this space is for YOU.

We’ll be talking about the ways we’ve internalized toxic messages and how we can begin to reclaim our joy, our bodies, and our self-esteem. This isn’t just a book talk—it’s a healing conversation, a sister circle, and a space for real transformation.

Expect laughter, truth-telling, maybe a little cussing, and a whole lot of love.

When: July 23, 2025 at 6:00 PM
Where: 44th & 3rd Bookseller, 451 Lee St SW, Atlanta, GA 30310

Come through, bring a friend, grab a book, and let’s sip this healing tea together. I can’t wait to see you there!

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Urban Reads Bookstore
Jun
28

Urban Reads Bookstore

  • 3003 Greenmount Avenue Baltimore, MD, 21218 United States (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

Baltimore, I’m Pulling Up – Let’s Do This on June 28th!

Hey y’all!

I’m coming to Urban Reads Bookstore in Baltimore on Friday, June 28th at 6:00 PM and I want to see YOU there!

We’re celebrating my book Drink Water & Mind Your Business: A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Your Self-Esteem—the real talk, the boundary-setting, the minding-your-business, and yes, the hydration. 💦

This isn’t just a book signing, it’s a whole vibe. Come get your copy signed, grab a hand-hug (if that’s your thing), and let’stalk about self-love, self-worth, and why everybody needs to get their business straight.

The Details:
📍 Where: Urban Reads Bookstore – 3008 Greenmount Ave, Baltimore, MD 21218
📅 When: Friday, June 28th
Time: 6:00 PM

💛 Special Note: Buy 1 book, donate 1 to an incarcerated individual—because our people on the inside deserve healing, too.

RSVP Here!

Pull up! Bring a friend, your questions, your beautiful energy, and don’t forget your water bottle—you know I’m gonna check.

Can’t wait to see y’all! 💛

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Loyalty Bookstore
Jun
17

Loyalty Bookstore

I’m Coming to Loyalty Bookstore — Let’s Connect on June 17th!

I’m so excited to share that I’ll be at Loyalty Bookstore in Washington, DC on Monday, June 17th for a special author signing event for my latest book, Drink Water and Mind Your Business!

This book has been such a labor of love—an invitation to all of us (but especially my Black women and femmes) to set boundaries, protect our peace, and choose ourselves without apology. And now I get to celebrate it in person with you!

This event is all about connection—me getting to meet YOU, sign your copy, and share in the joy, the laughs, and the real talk. We’re keeping it cute, community-centered, and full of vibes. ✨

The Details::

Where: Loyalty Bookstore – Washington, DC- 1155 Dahlia St NW

When: Monday, June 17, 2025

Time: 7:00 pm

RSVP Here!

Whether you’ve already read the book or you’re just curious, come through. Let’s take some pics, talk about boundaries, maybe sip some water (because you know I’m gonna remind you), and just enjoy being in the room together.

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Solid State
Jun
13

Solid State

Exciting News: I’ll Be at Solid State Bookstore Soon!


I’m so hype to let y’all know I’ll be at Solid State Books for a LIVE book signing of Drink Water & Mind Your Business — and yes, I’ll be signing your copies, giving face, and tellin’ the truth about healing, boundaries, and why self-preservation is the real flex. 💅🏾💥

🗓 Friday, June 13th at 7 PM
📍 Solid State Books – 600 H St NW, Washington, DC
🎟 RSVP now: bit.ly/drdonnaDC

We’re talkin’ real talk, laughter, connection, and a whole lot of Black girl healing. This ain’t just a book signing — it’s a whole moment. So bring your crew, your questions, and your fine self and let’s celebrate this thing together.

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Busboys and Poets
May
27

Busboys and Poets

I’m Coming to Busboys and Poets Brookland — Let’s Connect on May 27th!

I’m so excited to let you know that I’ll be at **Busboys and Poets in Brookland** on **Tuesday, May 27th** from **6 to 8 PM** for an evening of real talk, healing, and community.

We’re gonna dive into the themes of my book, *Drink Water and Mind Your Business*—setting boundaries, reclaiming your time, and unapologetically prioritizing yourself. This event is all about showing up for yourself and each other in a space that feels safe, warm, and full of love.

Come through, bring your questions, your stories, and maybe a friend who needs a little reminder to sip that water and mind their business. I can’t wait to meet you, chat, and share some powerful moments together.

🗓️ **Here’s what you need to know:**

📍 Busboys and Poets, 625 Monroe St NE, Washington, DC 20017

📅 Tuesday, May 27, 2025

⏰ 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM

Mark your calendars, save the date, and get your tickets here!

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🎉 Book Baby Shower for Drink Water & Mind Your Business
May
17

🎉 Book Baby Shower for Drink Water & Mind Your Business

Happy Baby Shower to me—well, my Book Baby anyway!

My second baby, Drink Water & Mind Your Business, officially drops on May 13th, and I want to celebrate with you in person at V-NO on May 16th!

Yes, we’re calling it a Book Baby Shower—because I don’t have children made of flesh and bone, but this baby? She’s made of paper, ink, and glue, and she deserves to be celebrated!

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Live Well, Sister!
May
14

Live Well, Sister!

I’m joining the fabulous Marcia of The Brown Girl Collective for a live convo about the book—and listen, I don’t know exactly what she’s gonna ask me, but you know it’s going to be good! 👀💬

We’re going live at 8 PM on Facebook and YouTube, so follow @browngirlcollective and make sure you’re in the room. You don’t want to miss this real, rich, and very honest conversation. Let’s go, you don’t want to miss a beat!

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Book Release
May
13

Book Release

It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

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